How Do You Feel About Emojis?
by Gay Yellen
Once upon a time, I had a comfortably introverted life. That all changed in 2014, when my first book came out, and my publisher urged me to join the rest of the world on Facebook, Twitter, and other social platforms.
At first, it was tough to emerge from my cocoon, but little by little, I was posting like a pro. I came to feel pretty comfortable about it, too, until last year, when I read an article in The Wall Street Journal about the generation gap in how people interpret what the little emoticons mean.
Take the smiley face, for example. People over the age of thirty generally use it to express happiness, or to indicate a positive response, like saying “good job!” Or perhaps, “I’m happy for you.” But you might be dismayed to know that twenty-somethings and teens find it patronizing, and if they use it at all, they deploy it sarcastically.
Since reading the WSJ article, I second-guess myself almost every time I reply to a post. Does my response feel genuine to the person receiving the message? Or does it come across as ironic when it’s meant to be sincere?
And what to make of the pile of Poop emoji, especially if it’s smiling? Even after consulting the internet for the answer, I’m not really sure, although I did learn that, in 2015, it was the most popular emoji in Canada, while the Eggplant reigned supreme in the States. Excrement and sexual innuendo. Lovely.
I had no idea about emojis. I've always taken them at "face" value! 🙂 Thanks for educating me on this timely topic.
Glad I read that article, Saralyn, or I'd be in the dark, too!
for a short time I started using them and then, like you, discovered I was "a generation" off. Now, the only ones I'm comfortable sendingcertain emojis to are people in my age group who view them the same way that I do.
It's a bummer to realize we're not so "cool" anymore.
Great article, Gay! Very helpful to those of us in the senior category. It reminds of a guy I read about who was trying to look cool in his emails and texts by using savvy acronyms, like imho and btw. But he thought lol stood for lots of love instead of laugh out loud. Sent out messages like: “Sorry to hear about your divorce. Lol.” And “Condolences about the death of your mother. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Lol!” He lost a lot of friends on FB. Here’s my favorite emoji 🦨. My signature.
OMG, That's a funny story! I'm LMFO!
Oh wow! Your post hits home! Emoticons and teen talk are both fascinating topics but I didn't realize they were so fluid. Before my granddaughter could read she sent me emoticon text messages. I can tell you that a unicorn and rainbow and a long row of pink hearts simply means it's a five year old with her daddy's phone. After reading your post I spent some time on a website called Urban Dictionary. Teen talk is tricky territory, "that's bad" means it's good, but that might be outdated giving way to "that's dope" but that might be so last year. It's all so confusing! Great article with food for thought. Thank you!
Barb, that's so adorable about your granddaughter. Here's hoping that as she grows she can keep you up to date with what's "fire" in her world.
I love this post, Gay. You've explained the fire symbol meaning to me. It's one I have not used, yet it constantly come up for me when I write "Angel Fire". I'm especially sensitive to that symbol this year due to the fires in New Mexico and other places. Think I'll stick with words too.
I'm thinking that emoji meanings are becoming as faddish as fashion trends. The meaning of a words can also change with the times. Still, words work for me.