Full Circle Moments

By Saralyn Richard

Once in a while in the writers’ journey, serendipitous moments occur, and they seem magical. I’ve had three such moments recently and will share them with you.

First of all, I’m writing an historical mystery that takes place in my hometown, Galveston, Texas, after the 1900 Storm, which is still the deadliest natural disaster in the history of America. In the information-gathering stage, I invited newsletter subscribers to send me names and/or stories of relatives from that place and time.

While I waited for responses, I worked on making burial arrangements for my cousin, Jill Jacobson, a Hollywood actress who grew up in nearby Beaumont, Texas. The plan was to bring Jill’s remains to Beaumont for burial in the family plot.

One of my newsletter subscribers sent me an email saying that I would be hearing from her friend, Betty, who had some 1900 Storm stories. Betty and I ended up chatting on the phone for more than an hour about her family’s experiences in the storm. During the conversation, Betty mentioned growing up in Beaumont, so I asked her if she knew my cousin Jill, and I told her what I was setting up with the cemetery.

To my surprise, and Betty’s, we realized that Jill is Betty’s cousin, too, on the opposite side of the family. So Betty is going to come to the memorial service, which she wouldn’t have known about if not for my work-in-progress.

The second full circle moment occurred last week at Then and Now Bookshop during ArtWalk. I was selling books at a table in the bookstore, when a mother and her nineteen-year-old daughter came over to look at my books.

The cover of Naughty Nana, the children’s book narrated by the real Old English sheepdog puppy, Nana, caught their eyes. “Oh, we remember Nana! We’re big Nana fans!” the mother said. “We were at the library when you brought Nana there to do a reading a long time ago, and we’ve followed Nana ever since.”

They were sad, but not surprised, that Nana crossed the Rainbow Bridge two years ago, but we reminisced about Nana’s many appearances in parades, on tv, at schools, etc. They purchased some of my other books, signed up for my newsletter, and left. The next day, I sent the mother an email with pictures from that long-ago library event they attended. Something made me include a drawing that one of the children did for Nana that day.

The next day I received a return email. The daughter was indeed one of the children in the picture, and she was the one who drew that treasured note to Nana. Thirteen years later, I still have the original!

The third full circle moment happened that same day at the same bookshop. One of the customers came up to my table asking if I was a local author, and if I was “BOI” (born on island). Being a BOI locks you into an immediate fraternity of special people. In fact, there are pregnant women who insist on delivering their babies in Galveston, so the babies can attain that status.

Turned out that customer was also a BOI, and she mentioned her connection to Dominican High School, a Catholic girls’ school here. I said, “I’m sure you knew my dear friend, Father Frank Fabj.”

That opened up a squealing that galvanized the entire bookshop. Yes, she knew Father Frank well. He was important to her and her family through several life cycle events. She was astounded to see that I dedicated A Palette for Love and Murder to him. She clutched the book to her chest, the same way I do sometimes when I think of and miss Frank’s presence.

The two of us, complete strangers moments before, bonded over the dedication in a book, and we ended up shedding tears and hugging together.

Recently, an interviewer asked me what surprised me most about becoming a writer, and I answered something about the network of readers and fellow authors I’ve met and the friendships I’ve made. The books that I’ve published are only the vehicles. The transmission of thoughts and feelings and ideas that comes from being a writer and a reader is what really counts—that is the basis for these magical, delightful, and, yes, thrilling connections with others.

I’d love to hear about one of your full circle moments.

 

Saralyn Richard writes award-winning mysteries, including the Detective Parrott mystery series, Bad Blood Sisters, Mrs. Oliver’s Twist, A Murder of Principal, and Naughty Nana, a children’s book. An active member of International Thriller Writers and Mystery Writers of America, Saralyn has taught creative writing and literature. Her favorite thing about being an author is interacting with readers like you. For more information, check https://saralynrichard.com.

19 replies
  1. Mary Lee Ashford
    Mary Lee Ashford says:

    Such wonderful full circle moments, Saralyn! And I so agree, the books are the vehicles. But the thoughts, ideas, and feelings created make possible those delightful connections with readers and other authors.

  2. Debra H. Goldstein
    Debra H. Goldstein says:

    What delightful moments. Lately, a lot of full circle moments have been happening to me because of all the new people I’m meeting. One that comes to mind is a woman who turned out not to have any real connection to me….but then I mentioned the name of another woman who had influenced me and the first woman got excited….Seems she had been a mentor to her, too.

  3. Judy Penz Sheluk
    Judy Penz Sheluk says:

    Love it! Sharing!
    Here’s mine. In 2014, I attended Bloody Words, a now-defunct mystery conference in Toronto. At the time I lived in the Greater Toronto Area, and I’d grown up in the city. On the second morning, I met a woman from Sault Ste. Marie (roughly 10 hour drive from Toronto, an hour or so flight). She looked a bit lost and had paid an obscene amount for breakfast at the hotel, Tim Horton’s being literally 2 doors down where you could get coffee and oatmeal or a bagel for about $3. Anyway, we hit it off and chatted a bit.
    I moved to Northern Ontario (Sault Ste. Marie) fulltime in 2022, but we’d had a cottage near there since 2015. In 2023, I did a library presentation on publishing and a while after that, a woman named Amanda Capper contacted me, would I like to meet for coffee to discuss publishing. New to the area, and with only a couple of golf buddies in my social circle, I accepted.
    It took a while, but one day we realized that we had met once before — at Bloody Words! Today, Amanda and I are co-authoring A Fatal Affair: The Murder of Helen Grier (which I blogged about here on my first Monday post).
    Full circle indeed.

    • Saralyn
      Saralyn says:

      I love your full circle story, too! What a great world this is, where people can find each other and form meaningful relationships. No AI needed!

  4. Donnell Ann Bell
    Donnell Ann Bell says:

    Saralyn, I can’t imagine how touched you were during all of these special moments. I’ve had so many they would be longer than your blog:) editors used to tell us not to include too many coincidences in our books. But coincidence aka full circle moments have been a tremendous part of my life. They make life worth living. Lovely blog.

  5. Lois Winston
    Lois Winston says:

    Somehow I missed this post the other day. I’m so glad I checked back. I love those connections you’ve made, Saralyn.

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